Meaning of Friendship!!!

This is going to be a emotional post, so readers be warned.. lol..


First of all, what is the meaning of friendship?? Please let me know what is your definition of friendship? To me, my definition of friendships is no matter what your friend personality or character is, if you view them as your friends, you will learn to adapt to that friend personality and character.. You will be there for him/her no matter what.. especially when they are down.. you will trust each other and treasure them.. For me, i view friendship very important because friendship is something you cannot find easily.. I will do whatever I can do be there for them and do make them happy and will buy gifts for them... But I guess, I might have trusted them so much.. on the other hand, these people are also there when you are down, supporting and encouraging you.. But I don't know how, but the next moment, they can also turn a cold shoulder to you or some will ask you to ignore him coz his gf is paranoid about you.. I wouldn't know.. I didn't even know that the people who view you as there good friends before can just turn away from you and want to break-up the friendship that we have established for at least 4 years and more.. The hurt of not knowing the reason of why is already very bad enough.. but the hurt of losing a friend is even more unbearable.. Is funny how human behave.. I wouldn't know who to trust and who to even treat them as friends.. At that moment of time, they are tell you that you are their good friends and no matter what they will be there forever.. but after all, is not a promise that they will keep.. If you really want the friendship to last longer, you will try ways to maintain it.. If anything happens, you should tell the other party what's wrong if it is his/her fault instead of turning a cold shoulder and just ignore them completely.. Or if they view friendship important, they would not expect their friend to stop smsing/ call unless they do just because his/her bf/gf is paranoid.. Is it really fair for the friend then? Do you actually even thought that you will hurt that friend.. Your just practically using them for your own benefit?

Ok.. Maybe you did something wrong that hurt the other party, but if you don't tell them what they did, they will not know forever and they will not be able to do anything to change or even try to maintain the friendship.. Maybe, the guy really like the gf and will do anything for her, even if the girl ask him not to talk to this person, he will also listen.. I guess i will not understand this until I get a bf.. but I am sure that most of you wouldn't.. maybe is just because he was my ex.. and so the girl is still paranoid.. not like I actually contact him since we broke up.. I even gave them the opportunity to be together.. I was the person that should be damn hurt.. I didn't even kept in touch with him for a very long time de.. and he was the one that recently contacted me again.. and now she is being paranoid and he wants me not to contact or sms him unless he do.. hmpphhh.. i guess it will never happened loh.. is like him using me as a friend.. he hurt be before and he still keep on hurting me.. why? because am easily used.. or i treasured friendship till i forgive my friends even though they hurt me.. so they used me.. i don't know..

If your friends want to break up with you without telling you anything, the normal who, what, where, when, how will never be answered.. you will never know who started it, what the situation is, where, when and how it happens.. So either you can blame yourself or you blame the other party.. but i guess... we tend to think is our fault..

But no matter how this will go, i never regret making friends with this people.. without them i wouldn't be able to stay strong when i was mentally and physically down.. So no matter what will happen even if we really not being friends with each other, i will always remember what you guys have done for me and will always appreciate it.. Thank you for the friendship for the past 4 to 5 years..

Happy Birthday my dear friend, Golda!!!

Golda came back for holidays for 2 weeks from Thailand before heading to Indonesia to work and she would not be back till dont know when.. 1 year?? 1 year plus?? or more.. Haha.. But this year we got to celebrate her birthday again with her.. Had a really good time today.. But before going into more detailed i will first wish her HAPPY 23RD BIRTHDAY!!! MAY ALL UR WISHES COMES TRUE!!! All the very best in Indonesia...

So what did we do today!!! Thanks to Sue for all the planning... we all had a great time.. Too bad... am not elaborating alot since am actually quite tired but i will briefly tell u where we went...

I left house at 11.30 and only got home at around 11 something too.. LOL.. 12 hours out but it was really fun...

Went to:

Burger King for lunch and wait for others

Then to

Bukit Tinggi- Colmar Tropicale and Japanese Village

Then to

Kepong- Jusco

Then to

Kepong for dinner- Bak Kut Teh

Then to

Desa Parkcity to cut Golda's birthday cake

Then we all of us went home... LOL

I will be updating the photos once I gotten the pictures from my friends...

p/s- Thanks Sue for the planning.. Thanks guys for coming and I get to know some of you.. It was nice meeting you guys... :)

And am sure Golda had a great TIME too!!! Haha.. Ya.. She better do!!! Muahaha..

Goodnight everyone.... Will blog more soon...

So sad!!! She is leaving on this Tuesday!!! :(

Memories of 2008

This post is dedicated to the one whole year of memories either good or painful experiences. 2008 has been a year where it is very hard to forget.. Too many things had happened in 2008.. whether is happy or sad memories but this is life thus no matter how hard it is, life still goes on.. I guess sometimes it makes us stronger to face more challenges.. So should I start with painful/sad experiences first or we happy memories.. Hmppphhh.. Takes 5 minutes to decide.. :)

Ok.. Am back... So what is my decision.. Hahaha.. I decide to start with the painful/sad experiences I encounter first.. In 2008, I had to leave behind both my beloved grandparents in 4 months apart.. Yes, is difficult to go through that five to six months.. Imagine, trying to have two family members who had been there since our childhood had left us.. Is not easy to forget the accept that fact.. But as i said, life still have to move on no matter how difficult it is and thus I had accepted the fact that they are both in a better place.. Chinese New Year is around the corner, but is not the same anymore without them.. Will see how this year Chinese New Year will be like..

The demise of my beloved grandpa on 26/5/2008

Ahkong, I missed you so much..

Picture of my beloved grandpa..



The demise of my beloved grandma on 19/8/2008

Ahma, I also missed you a lot..



and of course, the last year of my degree was tough.. There was of course problems that you had encounter during the last year where not only the subjects was tough but there are never ending assignments and exams.. However, the problems faced in uni/classes will not be posted here..

The next sad moments can also be leaving HELP University College.. Yes, am happy that finally everything is over and I will graduate if I passed all my subjects.. However, on the last day of uni, is difficult to bid farewell to your friends/classmates who had been studying together for 3 to 4 years.. Haha.. Talking about it, Uni life is fun besides some of the unforgettable problems that I had to go through but I had also a lot of fun and happy moments in my uni life..

Happy moments

3 weddings

Huda's wedding 4/1.2008.. Congrats Huda.. One year had passed, and I hope you are getting along well with your husband...





Then the very next day, 5/1/2008, my ex-teacher wedding...

Sorry, no pictures at the moment.. Hope i can grab a few from my friend.. Will upload it if I have.

Then was my cousin wedding.. Gina and Liew on the 13/1/2008.. Congrats again Gina..



Together with all the cousins and gina's sisters..



Pangkor Laut with my family. 20/1/2008















Sherlin's Birthday 2008- Le Meridian and Eye of Malaysia










Golda's birthday- Boathouse and my old apartment











Dad's Birthday in Penang Club











Meeting up with friends who I haven't met for quite some time..



Then of course is my 22nd birthday.. Although is not as fun as my 21st birthday but I had good time celebrating with my family

In Chilli's





In Summer Garden with my beloved family








Sri Inai Reunion (Pot Luck) - In Phei Shan's House






Golda back to KL for a short hols.. She is now in Thailand.. Golda back means more outing.. Hahaha




Prom Nite 2008- Flamingo Hotel 17/10/2008











HELP Sport's Carnival- 19/10/2008 The best Sport's Carnival I have attended..

ECONS DEPARTMENT WON 1ST!!! YAY!!! That's why I said is the best sport's carnival. :)











Then mum organized a Kechara Soup Kitchen dinner (fund raising)- G Hotel


My elder brother, me, Datuk Dr. Victor Wee, younger brother and mum


James, Me, Sayee, Datuk Dr. Victor Wee, Xandria Ooi, mum, younger brother, yang peng, and elder brother


Sayee, Dad, Datuk Dr. Victor Wee. Yang Peng, Mum, Gavin, Garrick


Wye Ling, Shari and Me

My cousin's baby- Aden was born... So cute.... and he is growing so fast...

1 day old



Now so big de.. I miss him...

(Baby Aden Pics taken from cousin's facebook)- Too lazy to upload the pics from my handphone now.. Hahaha


Adelene's 21st birthday party- Bora Asmara- 6/12/2008